Tip - Stop Giving Out and Start Observing

In order to find out and be sure you can stop giving out things that person wants from you. It can be your time, attention, help, money, anything. When you stop giving, the other person will realize that you are of no use to him. If then, he leaves, or starts distancing himself, you know what he was after.

Getting over it can be easy if you think of it as a gain. You lost whatever you gave that person but that was the price you paid to get rid of him.